well. a friend told me about the "status quo" of his problem. the friend of the gal-classmate he likes told his friend to tell him to direct his interest elsewhere. hmmm. sigh. it's hard to accept ain't it?

that night. i thought about what it takes to make a relationship works till "death do us part". most singles have a long term success with friends. so maybe it is a good strategy to marry or get into a relationship with a friend. however, in the absence of sex. whether that's the arrangement or just what happens after a few years. what distinguishes this companion with our many other companions? when it comes to saying "i do", is a relationship, a relationship, without the "zsa zsa zsu"?

sometimes we feel like "what have we done wrong this time? why is it not working". maybe it is not us. maybe the zsa zsa zsu is not really there in the first place. or at least, in my dear friend's case. the zsa zsa zsu has turned into zsa zsa shoo! oh well. thigs will work out fine. someday.

-ending note-
Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies (ie.zsa zsa zsu)